No, I
didn't sneeze. I didn't spell the word wrong, I didn't make a huge typo, I
didn't accidentally fall on the keyboard and then bump "Publish"
before I meant to.
That is a real word.
Eucharisteo.
It's Greek.
And, to put it plainly, it means,
"thanksgiving."
Simple word, sure.
But it rocked my world yesterday.
Sick, coughing, a little too warm,
weak and aching, I turned over on my bed again. One more time to try to
alleviate the extreme discomfort I was in. God,
why am I sick? Why? I've been sick for three days now--and on my bed for two of
those days. Why?
Silence.
I didn't take any notice of God's
silence--that silence that held weight--and I continued. And why is everything falling apart
around my ears? Why isn't my family in a real house; with funds enough to meet
everything that happens? Why am I stuck over here alone, not fitting in, not
able to communicate? Why have I been deserted (or at best, lovingly released)
by all those I called dear? Are you asleep at the wheel? Surely not... But
then, WHY? Tell me why!
Silence again. I really don't blame
Him: I wouldn't want to answer someone who was on the other end of the line
asking me questions
like that.
But He wasn't silent because He
didn't feel like responding. He was just waiting--putting into practice that
talent that He's been trying to get me to learn lately. He just waited. And was
silent.
I rolled over again. I stared at my
computer. 3 o'clock in the morning, Pacific time. No way was anyone awake. No
emails, no chats, no Facebook messages. Silence from the virtual world as well.
I sighed and looked up above my head, where my row of neatly arranged books
sat. I stared at them one by one. Empty journals, almost filled journals,
notebooks, sketchbook, Gladys
Aylward: The Little Woman, In the Shadow of the Mob, my
Strong's concordance, a small devotional book, my Bible... My eyes travelled
over each one. I had no energy to do much more than read...and I'd read most of
these already.
Then one caught my attention. Not
because of a flashy cover, but because I realized I hadn't read that one
yet.
Wow, I don't want to read that
one. I started months ago, and her language was just way too heavy and flowery
for me. Not going there--especially not when I'm sick.
But something kept my eyes riveted
on its spine. Three words stared back at me: One
Thousand Gifts. I was
determined to win this stare-down...but somehow, the book prevailed (or was it
Someone else?) and my hand soon pulled it out and opened to page one.
The writer is Ann Voskamp. I'd only
heard of her once before in my life; and that from my friend and roommate,
Kezzia. She tried to explain to me all of what Voskamp's theory was, but I
didn't pay much attention. I still didn't pay much attention when I was given
that book for my birthday. I tried to read it, didn't succeed, and put it back
on my shelf. That was that.
Don't ask my why I brought it to
Thailand. Other than somehow, God slipped it in to my packing because He knew
I'd need it.
So, Ann writes of growing up. Of
being an adult, the wife of a farmer, mother of six. The pain from a little sister's
death in the driveway at maybe two years old, a mother in such insane grief
she's locked into a psychiatric ward at a hospital, two nephews die from a
terminal disease at less than six months within the space of less than two
years: she writes of a hard life. A life filled with doubts, with pain, and
with lots of "Why God?!"s.
In a small sense, I can relate. I'd
just spent time asking why myself.
But she's looking for more. And in
an email sent to her as a challenge, she finds it.
Write down one thousand gifts?
Gifts from God? A thousand of them? Really?
Really.
I walked with her on her journey;
the journey that led to this life filled with eucharisteo: "Thanksgiving."
Complete, perpetual, wholly-obsessive thanksgiving. Thanking God for everything.
Everything.
Ann wanted a fuller, richer, more
meaningful life. So do I.
She found her answer in eucharisteo.
Safe to say that perhaps I'll find
my answer there too?
Jesus continually gave thanks. At
the last supper, right before His beloved Judas will be allowed to escape into
the hands of demonic possession; before Peter will deny with sickening oaths
and swearing that he never knew the Man; before all His disciples forsake Him;
before a cruel mob led by cold soldiers sent by bloodthirsty priests comes and
ties Him up (Him, the Creator of the Universes, bound by the work of His own
hands!) and takes him into a courtroom where no justice is employed; before
Pilate commands Him scourged, beaten; before the soldiers mock Him; before He is
finally led to Golgotha and sharp pieces of iron fix Him to a rough piece of
wood: before all these scenes of horror He
gives thanks.
Don't believe me?
"And He took the cup, and gave
thanks..." Luke 22:17
"And He took bread, and gave
thanks..." Luke 22:19
"And when He had given
thanks..." 1 Corinthians 11:24
Jesus is about to die. He has only
a few short hours left without pain; with a beating heart in His chest: and He gives thanks.
When He raised Lazarus from the
dead, He gave thanks. Not after the fact, but before the fact.
Jesus spent His life enacting eucharisteo. He spent His
whole life giving thanks, even unto death. He rejoiced that He was to
suffer, even! "But for the joy that was set before Him, He endured the
cross, despising the shame."
Joy. Real, abiding, lasting
joy.
Eucharisteo.
I laid One Thousand Gifts aside
later that evening, having read the whole book, cover to cover. Ann made it to
her thousand...and then continued on to infinity. Granted, she's still a human:
she's not perfect. She still makes mistakes, she's still learning. But she
found the key--and she's employing that key to unlock the iron doors that
surrounded her imprisoned heart. She's giving thanks.
I looked around. We were in the
middle of a power outage. No lights, no fan; the computer was dying, my
headlamp batteries were getting low, and I was still sick.
But something inside me writhed and
screamed to be free. Something that said, Give
thanks.
I began to write an entry in my
journal, struck by the import of what I had read and needing to funnel thoughts
onto paper to get them out. As I wrote, I began to realize that I needed to
give thanks, not just for everything, but for everything. That
means the pain that wracks my heart, the trials that come my way, the mountains
I have to climb, and heaven forbid, the waiting I
have to do... I need to give thanks. For all of it.
In all these things. Not some, not a few. All.
I thought I knew what it meant to
love. To be a friend. I look behind me and realize that I had no clue. Some of
the deepest wounds inflicted on me have been because of love, and I've seen it
as a curse, as rejection all over again. I say, with shame in my heart, that
those I have accused of breaking my heart the worst have loved me better in
doing so than they would have had they not!
That thought sobered me. It's
enough to sober anyone.
But then, what is love? Where do
you find it? How do you obtain it?
Eucharisteo.
Thanksgiving.
I only brought 4 journals with me
to Thailand. Saving space for other things, and really, am I going to fill up
four journals in seven months? Apparently so: those empty books keep getting
more precious to me as I realize that I've barely been here a month now and my
first journal is almost full. FULL. That means I'll start a new one soon. And
then another and another and then I'll be out. I can't waste these.
But the thought of Ann's
challenge--that of recording, finding one thousand gifts--had filled my vision. Eucharisteo blinded me. I wanted to write out
a thousand--or more. But Lord,
where do I record all of it? Where? I want to write it--take it with me
wherever I go. I want it to work even when the power doesn't. But where do I
put it?
Again, God was silent. He seemed to
want me to make the decision myself.
The longing proved too great. One
of my precious journals, the one with Psalm 118:24 on the front ("This is
the day that the Lord hath made; let us rejoice and be glad in it"),
reserved for my thoughts about life in Thailand, was given another purpose last
night. To hold my gifts. To help me learn the art of eucharisteo. To help me
learn how to live thanksgiving,
and find the real, genuine joy I've been seeking all my life. To help me find
that fulness that I haven't been experiencing.
Before I began, I wrote in my
journal these words:
"So,
one of my precious journals is being assigned to a special purpose. To learning
how to live with a constant joy, constant thanksgiving. To learn how to wait;
how to really love. To really wait.
I'm starting my own list. I'm going to make it to one thousand first...and see
where I am by then. One thousand gifts of my own. It's high time I learned how
to live fully."
I made it to 50 last night. I'm aiming
to make it to 100--200--300...today, tomorrow, next week, next month. It is
definitely high time I learned how to live fully. How to live eucharisteo.
And it's not just high time for me.
It's high time for you too.
I'm going to challenge you: call it
a dare, if you will. Can you write a list of one thousand gifts? One thousand
things that bring you unexpected (or expected) joy; things that make you smile;
things that bring solace to your heart. Can you think of one thousand things?
It doesn't have to be all at once: do it one day at a time. Look for more to
add to that list throughout the day. Write it down; keep it in a journal or a
notebook somewhere. I dare you.
I've taken the challenge up. How
many of you will take it up with me?
I guarantee that it will change
your life.
It's high time that we all learned
what it means to live fully...
That is, to live with continual,
obsessive thanksgiving to the God of glory.
Eucharisteo.